Can you contact my loved one my mum, my dad, my aunt etc?
During mediumship work the medium does not choose which spirits come
to them; the medium is merely a channel to pass the messages on. This
can be likened to an old-fashioned telephone exchange operator. The
operator did not control who was going to call whom but when you made
a call she connected you with the person you wished to talk to, if
This is not to say your loved one will not come through, it just means
the medium cannot promise a connection to any one person in spirit.
How long is it before those who've passed on can contact
You will hear different opinions on this but it does seem to be the
case that it depends very much on the actual circumstances of their
passing and how much personal spiritual awareness the person has.
Some people can contact their loved ones almost immediately. Others
may take months or even years. There is no definitive answer, but
do not feel there is something wrong if a loved one does not speak
to you through a medium or other method. There is no blame or anger
in the spirit state; all things are understood and forgiven.
Some people worry if a loved one has passed under tragic
circumstances such as suicide, or through the hands of another, and
ask will that person be ok.
The answer is definitely; our souls are all of equal value, and everyone
who passes except really advanced souls such as highly spiritually
evolved and wise souls all have a transition period of healing. So
regardless of whether you have passed through a physical illness or
a traumatic event such as through the hands of someone else or suicide
it is irrelevant in the spirit world.
We are all equal and all loved equally, so please do not worry. Your
loved ones will always be treated with the same love and respect as
the next soul, they will go to the healing rooms
for a period of time and they will be healed and happy and loved.
What are the healing rooms?
There are varying answers to this, but broadly speaking, the healing
rooms or halls of healing are where recently passed souls go to recover.
They may require healing because of the illness or incident which
ended their life, or to remove other traumatic energies which remain
in the spirit aura after death. As in any state of transition, for
some people it takes a while to re-establish a balance and move on.
Others may adapt very quickly, which is why some people return with
messages almost at once and others take a much longer time.
How do I get a free reading at Mystic Familiar?
There are many different types of readings; we do tarot,
runes, crystal readings, empathic, clairvoyance, clairaudience and
many more psychic and mediumship readings. All readings are given
in the chat rooms, for your own safety. No personal details or information
is shared with others. All our psychic
medium readings are free.
The easiest way to get a reading is to post a request on the Reading
Requests for Free Psychic and Mediumship Readings message board in
our forum. This means that our psychics and mediums will see that
you are looking for a reading and they can keep an eye out for you
in the chat rooms. You can also ask in the chat rooms any night and
if a reader is available, they may be able to connect for you and
give a reading. Do remember, however, that all our readers are volunteers
and may not wish to read at that time.