You may be wondering what is the shadow
self? Well shadow self is in essence your alter ego, which is a bit
to simplistic an explanation as the shadow self a lot more complex
than that.
The shadow self is used to explain
that there is another side to ourselves, another side to you, that
you may or may not be wholly aware of, the shadow self is the negative
side of you.
This negative you is everything you are not, if you are a positive
energy person then your shadow self is negative energy.
In certain scenario’s your shadow
self can make you fail to see the obvious, can make you think you
are full of positive energies, when in truth your not, and this can
lead to complications. It is important to try to remain watchful and
to be careful of your shadow self as it can hijack you and make you
act without considering the consequences of such an act. The shadow
self is an enigma as it is both builder and destroyer. It can be the
holder of all your suppressed emotions, emotions like anger, envy
and jealousy. It can turn a normally mild mannered man into a wild
animal.
Therefore it is of the utmost importance
to learn control. Learn to keep a balance, this is done by acknowledging
your shadow self. Let it be aware you know its there. Love your shadow
self as you love yourself. Never forget that the shadow self is part
of you and helps make you who you are, what you are, and despite its
appearance of arrogance and such it is truly full of fear and self
loathing.
With a lot of work and attention you
can control your shadow self and eventually you will succeed, you
and your shadow self will become as one within. Consequently with
this in mind, it is good to question yourself, look at what you have
done, ask yourself 'Why did I do that'? This acts as a good way to
be aware of your shadow self and keep it under control.